FAQs

Where are you Based?

Aljezur in west Algarve, Portugal.

How can I book a First Session with you?

Once you initiate contact through an email or WhatsApp, I will respond with a request to call you to learn more about you. This 15 min free call gives me a chance to explain more about what I offer and for you to share what you need support with. If everything is ok, we can book a first session.

Do you Work with Couples?

Yes! I offer a 5 hour Couples Retreat (Tantric Initiation) & a 5 day Couples Retreat (Tantric Awakening- Deeper Exploration). They are both a mixture of teaching massage and healing techniques, holding space for presence, emotional expression, ritual, pleasure, energy work, Tantric tools; held in a magical space in nature or at your place. I can teach completely hands on, while the other partner watches, partially hands on with one partner (receiver experiences a 4 handed massage) or completely hands off. Tailor made to your needs!

PLEASE NOTE; I ALSO OFFER PRIVATE, LUXURY COUPLES TANTRA RETREATS IN A BEAUTIFUL VILLA SETTING, WHICH IS NOT ON MY WEBSITE- PLEASE ENQUIRE FOR MORE INFORMATION OR SEE- https://sacrederos.com/listing/couples-tantra-retreats-portugal/

What does a 5 Day Couples Retreat involve?

You will have 5 days to learn, practise and experience transformational tools, that will not only open a new door in your intimate life, but provide insights into yourself and your relationship. I will guide you to awaken your aliveness, release pain from the body & open your heart to life. Using breath work, bodywork, energy work, ritual and somatic coaching, we will curiously explore the nature of your being. Aside from the Tantric & Taoist practices, you will have free time to relax and enjoy the stunning beaches of West Coast Portugal. You will stay (by yourselves) in a typical Portuguese house, 10 minutes from the ocean in a quiet location in nature. Local, organic breakfast ingredients are provided. Please see my “Couples” page for more information.

What does a session involve for Men?

A first session (if full consent is given) looks like this: we start with a consultation to see what your needs, boundaries and questions are on the day. I’ll explain about the bodywork and what to expect, to help you relax. We will spend time building trust and a sacred container, through Tantric connection exercises. I’ll guide you through a short meditation to help you ground & bring awareness into your body. I will perform a Tantric unveiling ritual, sensation play to wake up the energy body and then the main part of the session is a full- body Tantra Massage including intimate massage (Rosetta or/ and Lingam). After, I will give you some time alone to rest and integrate. You then may take another shower and we close with a final talk.

What’s the intention of a session for Men?

I work on releasing tension, opening the heart and central channel to move sexual energy up in a conscious way. This may bring up suppressed emotions and there can also be pleasure, which we can work with so you can experience more full- bodied energetic orgasms. I can show you through Tantric principles how to retain your sexual energy and gain more control over your sexual response. All my sessions are particularly healing for men with premature ejaculation and performance anxiety.

Will I be Clothed? Will You be Clothed?

You can wear as much or as little clothing as you like. Typically, the bodywork is done without clothes, but if you need the first session to be clothed, then we would focus on bodywork that is less intimate. I am always clothed.

Can I Ejaculate in the Session?

I am not working with ejaculation. The purpose of my sessions is to show you a different way of experiencing intimate touch, pleasure & your sexuality. It’s best to come with an open mind to learn something new and a curiosity about your body. What I offer you is a new way to view how you work with your sexual energy in a more conscious way through circulating it.

Is Pleasure Allowed in the Session?

Yes. It’s not always the goal, but it’s welcome. I want you to experience pleasure in a new way. In a more embodied way, rather than in an escapist way. That’s why we do the necessary ground work in the first session, with the Rosetta/ Prostate Massage. But generally, the idea is that you open to more profound, energetic pleasure. Pleasure that includes the whole body, and not just the genitals.

Why is Therapeutic Prostate Massage & Lingam Massage beneficial?

Please read my ‘Sessions for Men’ page.